Some of the many species Jeffrey Combs has evolved into:

  • @ChicoSuave@lemmy.world
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    4123 days ago

    It’s heart warming to see Jeffrey Combs is an incredible actor with good taste in the company he keeps. It’s exciting seeing him vocally shouting down the fascists.

  • BougieBirdie
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    1923 days ago

    You don’t expect Herbert West: Reanimator to be the voice of reason… yet here we are

    What a funky timeline

    • Flying SquidOPM
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      1523 days ago

      I actually had the pleasure of working with him on a motion comic project once (which sadly never got finished) and this is 100% him. He’s a very cool guy in person and this is exactly the sort of thing I would have expected him to say, although maybe not directly to Matt Walsh.

      He’s also a massive Radiohead fan. I’m not, so I mostly just sat there and listened when he gushed about them at lunch after hearing them on the radio in my car. Thankfully, the other people with us knew more about Radiohead than I did.

      He also said one of the funniest things I’ve heard a pro like him say in a work setting, talking about a movie role he was offered: “I’ll do it for $1000, but not if the script is shit.”

      • BougieBirdie
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        1023 days ago

        That last bit sounds like him. That’s how you end up with the fun roles, like the talking mould that grows on somebody’s toilet.

        • Flying SquidOPM
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          923 days ago

          That last bit sounds like him.

          That’s what made it so funny. He’ll do pretty much anything if he likes the idea. Just pay him scale and he’s up for it. But don’t offer him $1000 and expect him to do magic with your terrible screenplay.

  • @S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    922 days ago

    What a narrow view. In other many places things are different and they function you know. In Brazil kids get the mother’s surname.

    • Flying SquidOPM
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      1023 days ago

      I’ve known other people who do that.

      I just feel like any name change that you don’t need (i.e. you’re transitioning) is just more bother than it’s worth.

      • @BradleyUffner@lemmy.world
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        1123 days ago

        Yeah, that’s what we are running into. The marriage forms here in NC make it simple to take the husband’s last name as part of the process, but any other kind of change requires a lot of crazy, expensive, and time consuming steps.

    • @mipadaitu@lemmy.world
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      2523 days ago

      Hot tip, change HIS last name prior to the wedding and she gets the name change free.

      I know a couple that waited until after the wedding to do that and the husband changed his name, then the wife was given the option of keeping her old name, or switch to his old name.

      She ended up having to go through the entire name change process without the benefit of the auto-name flip from the marriage.

      • @bitchkat@lemmy.world
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        423 days ago

        I’m pretty sure both of us had the option of changing our names when we got married and when we got divorced.

      • Warning: Taken from decades-old memories of things that I wasn’t involved in or paying much attention to! Anyway…

        In Virginia a man sued the state like 30 years ago because they wanted to charge him to change his name, when a woman could change her name free when she got married. The state could either have charged women or made it free for all. They chose the later.

      • Norah - She/They
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        323 days ago

        This is really interesting, because in my state in Australia, this process isn’t gendered at all. The man can take the woman’s name just as easily, same with same-sex marriages.

  • The Pantser
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    1123 days ago

    I prefer the old ways. Steve son of Bill 5th generation Help Desk support.

  • IninewCrow
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    1723 days ago

    Who cares what name anyone uses … my wife and I never got married and she’s always had her name and we never bothered changing a thing because we never cared. No one cares … not even the government.

    • Flying SquidOPM
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      1623 days ago

      my wife and I never got married

      I’m assuming you mean you never had a ceremony?

      Aren’t you automatically married by common law in Canada after a certain number of years? I seem to remember that was the case with my uncle and his wife. But he eventually had to marry her because she’s German and she couldn’t get a long-term visa so he could work in the states when he was allowed to return. He dodged the Vietnam war draft. When Clinton allowed people like him to return, he got a job at the Library of Congress. Quite ironic.

      Meanwhile, she continued to get paid for Canadian work because she was a professor at the (at the time) by-mail only Athabasca University.

      If Uncle Sam was expecting them to stick around, they didn’t. They moved back to Saskatoon after he retired. Canada treated him very well. He happened to be pursuing a folklore degree right at the time the Canadian government realized they needed folklorists to help preserve various cultures within their borders.

      Sorry for rambling. I need more sleep apparently.

      • IninewCrow
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        1323 days ago

        Yes … that’s why I say the government doesn’t care … after a couple have been together for a few years, they are more or less considered married, legally speaking. We thought of a ceremony for a while … then waited for so long that we just never think of it any more.

        I know some same sex couples that have been together for over 30 years up here, they got together years ago as ‘friends living together’ when the attitudes of same sex couples were still frowned upon. Now after all that time, they are more or less married couples and file their taxes just like every other married couple. When it comes to finances and taxation, governments and economics really don’t care about sexuality or sexual orientation, as long as you pay your taxes.

        I also know of a friend of a friend from the sixties who lived up north near Timmins who received US draft dodgers during the 70s. A couple of young professionals who eventually became high school teachers and college professors and ended up just living up here all their lives. They did a lot for people and gave a lot of their energy and expertise to people up here … also excellent folk musicians and artists … all because of some dumb war they were avoiding. There was some good that came out of those dumb wars the US was forcing their young people to die in for no reason.

        Don’t worry about rambling … I always enjoy hearing from you.

        Get more sleep … never apologize for being a Ramblin’ Man. Stay well my friend.

        • Flying SquidOPM
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          623 days ago

          It’s also crazy to me that Canada basically didn’t care about their folklore until the late 60s. And I don’t just mean indigenous cultures. That would make sense due to all the bigotry. But they also weren’t interested in things like preserving the unique culture that has developed in The Maritimes.

          I have a white Newfie friend who is now in Alberta and he’s constantly talking about how he wished people in Edmonton were more like Newfies culturally. Clearly there are distinct cultures in Canada even for white people. No one in the government thought that was worth recording either.

          Just bizarre.

          • Adderbox76
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            123 days ago

            Quebec cares. Probably a little too dogmatically in my opinion. But you’re right about east coast culture.

            Although I would say that it does have it’s own somewhat well-documented cultural artifacts in terms of music, food and drink. We certainly hear more on the prairies about Screech, Great Big Sea and kissing the fish (for example) than most other areas with the exception of Quebec.

            • Flying SquidOPM
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              223 days ago

              I was talking about back in the 60s when my uncle went to Canada.

    • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet
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      323 days ago

      Believe it or not, a lot of people care. But it’s fine that you don’t, especially if it’s working out for you.

      • Tippon
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        323 days ago

        My new headcanon is that you’re ininewcrow’s wife, and your comment is super passive aggressive

  • @Pickle_Jr@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1423 days ago

    There are tons of reasons why one might not want to change their name. At a minimum you have to send a form to the state, update any licenses you have, contact your banks, your insurance, your place of work… Best case scenario it’s an annoying hassle to deal with.

    Was I appreciative when my wife took my name? Sure. But that’s mostly because we also share the same first name so it’s hilarious to share the same last name. But I told her many times before we got married she didn’t need to do it. I never expected that out of her.

    If having a matching name is a big deal with you, then you can change your name.

    • @ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works
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      1023 days ago

      If having a matching name is a big deal with you, then you can change your name.

      ‘Why should I have to change? He’s the one who sucks!’ -Michael Bolton

    • It seems reasonable for each partner to continue to use their original family name if they want to, even if it’s only the husband’s name on the marriage certificate.

      If you go down the legally hyphenated name path, after a few generations, this could potentially devolve to family names like: Jones-Smith - Smythe-Johns - Longbottom-Allcock - Junior III (etc).

    • @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      123 days ago

      Yeah my wife has agreed that taking my name would be nice, but it’s a pain in the ass. And omg yes I love your attitude. Part of why I wanted to share a last name is so we can be Ms. and Mrs. Lastname.

  • GeminiFrenchFry
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    1223 days ago

    I almost kept my maiden, but now it’s an additional middle name. I love my maiden name, but I changed my name to my husbo’s because it has a Z in it and I was super stoked to have a Z in my signature. 😂I also like the way it sounds with my first name.

    Sometimes, it’s really that simple. My husband didn’t care either way when we discussed it. It was just a choice I made.

  • @bitjunkie@lemmy.world
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    1222 days ago

    For someone who gives this much of a shit about gender roles, you’d think they’d learn the correct forms of the word for an intended spouse.

    • shastaxc
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      021 days ago

      Most people don’t give a shit about the gendered spelling differences in loan words

  • @idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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    1123 days ago

    My maiden name was awful to have. Other people liked it because it looked cool, but it was a hassle for everything even in the US, where at least part of it was well known. I then moved to Germany, where it was just totally foreign.

    My married name is under three syllables (vs more than eight), easy to spell, and sounds as German as possible. My husband would have loved to take my last name, but we couldn’t do it the way we wanted to (German naming laws 🙃). I would really have liked to at least have been able to keep my maiden name as a middle name, but alas.

    I still feel very weird (about a year out) about it, but there are way more good feelings than bad.

    However, it’s really annoying that people now assume I’m German. I put in a shit load of work to learn German well as an adult, and my strongest skill is in pronunciation. That combined with my name means people think I’m just a native German who’s bad at grammar, and they don’t correct me anymore.

    I always wanted to blend in as a native, I just didn’t think about the middle stretch where I just seem a bit dumb to others, both because of the language and cultural things that people now expect me to know (I thought it was called handkäse because you can eat the little rounds straight from the hand, no need for bread, until last year).

    • @quafeinum@lemmy.world
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      122 days ago

      German here. Took my wife’s name because she has publications and I don’t. I have no idea what you are talking about. In Germany any partner can take the others name in a marriage or even have a compound name (maiden name - new name). My father took my mother’s name, they divorced 20 years ago, now my father is going to change his name back to his old name. My sister married her girlfriend, she took her name. Idk at this point it kinda became our internal family joke thing although our last name wasn’t that horrible

      • @idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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        222 days ago

        I already had a compound name, and we both have middle names, which are the relevant problems to combining our names the way we wanted.

        In Germany, you can’t have a twice hyphenated name (not that I wanted one), nor can you use that hyphenated name as an additional middle name, if you already have one.

        • @quafeinum@lemmy.world
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          222 days ago

          Ah ok thanks for explaining. That makes sense that although they redid the law that there’s still idiotic shit I it that doesn’t work in real life.

    • Flying SquidOPM
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      523 days ago

      I have a German surname, but my family changed the pronunciation to sound lest German during WWII so now Germans pronounce it “wrong” and no one else can pronounce it at all.

      • @idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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        I read most of my news, so it took about a month to realize the VP candidates last name was pronounced “Walls,” so you’re among company.

        I’m from Connecticut, which has a town called Berlin, pronounced BURR-lun (/‘bərlən/). That , like the pronunciation of many German-origin names, was changed during WWII, but it’s basically a shibboleth for locals now, like Houston Street.

        • Flying SquidOPM
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          I’m in Indiana and half of our place names are pronounced incorrectly.

          Ver-sayles (Versailles)
          Rooshaville (Russiaville)
          Pee-ru (Peru) Kay-roh (Cairo)

          And, of course, we’re the home of the University of Note’r Daym.

          • @stringere@sh.itjust.works
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            Saint Louis would like some words:

            Bellefontaine (BELL-fountain)

            Cabanne (CAB-a-knee)

            Chouteau (SHOW-toe)

            Carondelet (kron-duh-let)

            Cote Brilliante (coat BRILL-yunt)

            DeTonty (duh-TON-tee)

            Dougherty Ferry (DOOR-uh-tee ferry)

            DeBaliviere (duh-BALL-uh-ver)

            Goethe (GO-thee)

            Gravois (GRAV-oy)

            Gratiot (GRASH-it)

            Hodiamont (HOAD-uh-mont)

            Juniata (june-ee-AH-tuh)

            Kossuth (KOSS-ooth)

            Laclede (lah-CLEED)

            Spoede (SPAY-dee)

            Tesson Ferry (TESS-on ferry)

            Zumbehl (ZUM-bull)

  • @wjrii@lemmy.world
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    My wife went double-barreled after I specifically told her I didn’t care if she changed, kept, or anything in between. I didn’t want to change my name, so why should she have to?

    Twenty years next summer.

    Edit: “double-barreled” just means hyphenated.

  • @TheGrandNagus@lemmy.world
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    My wife took my name, but I would not give the slightest shit if she didn’t, which I made clear to her at the time.

    We briefly discussed having a double-barrel surname, but writing that out would be a mild inconvenience that neither of us want.

    And maybe this is a dumb question, but what happens when forename surnameA-surnameB marries or has children with forename surnameX-surnameY?

    What is the resulting name? forename surnameA-surnameB-surnameX-surnameY? Do they pick one of each, e.g. A-X?