Hi all! I used to be a daily r/selfhosted lurker and a bit active user. Since the Reddit saga I thought that r/selfhosted would be one of the first and bigger community to move to Lemmy due to the IT knowledge of all of their users and the sensitivity about self host/privacy/open source, but I see that not only the community is still all there, but it’s rising. :( That really makes me sad. How can we convince the mods there to move people here? Is it allowed to talk about Lemmy on Reddit or do we risk of being banned?

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    2 years ago

    Stop obsessing about Reddit and create a content on Lemmy instead. People will come once they see there’s enough activity here.

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        2 years ago

        I’d prefer if we stopped bringing up Reddit altogether. We no longer use the platform, we should be happy with what we have here instead of constantly peeping into the neighbor’s garden.

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        2 years ago

        Yah but that seems to be what lemmy is turning out to be and I don’t see it being sustainable.

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      2 years ago

      It’s not an obsession! Simply if all the good poster/commenter that are there would come here, this place would be better!

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        2 years ago

        Be the change you want to see.

        You thought they were the leaders. They’re the followers, staying near the crowd.

        Building communities is hard and takes time.

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    2 years ago

    The change will come once people start searching for stuff on Google and they get results which link back to lemmy. For that to happen we need people asking for help/feedback and getting their answers here.

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      2 years ago

      The most useful comment in this entire thread, the search results are a bit of a mess currently and that’s a huge stumbling block.

      I tried a simple search query with lemmy and the way results come back is not good

      it’s going to take a long time for that to change but just as a casual user I doubt I’d click anything past the first few reddit links.

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          2 years ago

          It’s definitely progress and seeing myself in one of the top results was nice but it’s going to take a lot more work and tbh the decentralised nature of the links might also hurt because clicking on the dbzero link looks like a hackerman link if you know what I mean

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      2 years ago

      Hmm does Lemmy need search engine optimization? I have no idea how seo works these days :/

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    2 years ago

    allowed to talk about Lemmy on Reddit

    if /r/lemmy is any proof; A) its ok to talk about lemmy on reddit and B) /u/spez has some validity in his point about users would be back not just because of the ‘48hr’ thing.

    That said, yes a loud enough minority can create change and that discussion does need to happen where the users are for the network effect to kick off.

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      2 years ago

      Some mods are deleting comments/posts promoting lemmy. I made a post in my fav sub about the community in lemmy and the mods deleted it.

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        2 years ago

        I had at least three comments talking about Lemmy removed too. For all I know it was many more than that because I didn’t get any notice or explanation.

        My take is that they’re censoring without even informing people because the fediverse is a real threat to them.

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    2 years ago

    If you link to Lemmy on Reddit, the admins sometimes delete the comment.

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    2 years ago

    Subscriber numbers mean little. Take a look at the trend for the posts per day and comments per day graphs. They’re far more accurate indicators of the level of engagement actual users are having with reddit.

    I’ve just checked for 10 of the subs I used to subscribe to, 2 of which have over 30m subscribers - all of them have the same downward trend in terms of posts and comments. I’m not saying reddit is in trouble but less new content is being created and that which is is being talked about less, eventually that will take a toll.

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    2 years ago

    The fediverse keeps sabotaging itself with instances defederating left and right, that way it’ll never become an alternative regular user would want to join.

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      2 years ago

      Defederation isn’t sabotage. It’s a feature for healthy communities. Anyone that is interested in discussions on either defederated community, will create an account for both.

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        Anyone that is interested in discussions on either defederated community, will create an account for both.

        And that is the reason why reddit is still growing. If you are required to make multiple accounts just to engage with the communities you want to engage with, Lemmy is no better than separate forums. And those all got overshadowed by reddit for a reason.

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        2 years ago

        Honestly, for anyone not particularly tech literate it’s a bit confusing. It’s got Lemmy in the name. It’s the same UI. Most are going to wonder why they’re suddenly logged out or why they need another account. It’s not intuitive if it’s not something you’re particularly used to.

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    2 years ago

    So…I own a .com domain that’s really, really good as far as being lemmy-related (it has lemmy in the name).

    Not exactly a s self-hosted question, and I’m an old geek so I can arrange hosting and set things up myself when I have time, but anyone have a guess as to my traffic costs if I decide to turn it into a federated lemmy instance and open it up to the public? Just looking for thoughts and opinions.

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      I wouldn’t worry about it too much. The per-user traffic costs appear to be low enough that it seems likely you’d be able to sustain the instance on donations, even with a low percentage of altruistic users.

      You could also try asking @Ruud.

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      2 years ago

      Only one way to find out. ;) You can always limit signups if you get overwhelmed. Get yourself one of those DMCA protection licenses too, they’re very cheap afaik.

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          https://www.eff.org/issues/dmca I am not sure how it all works. However, there is some registration you can sign up for to help comply with: “The “safe harbor” provisions (section 512) protect service providers who meet certain conditions from monetary damages for the infringing activities of their users and other third parties on the net.” You will have to read about it further, but I saw it mentioned when others were discussing setting up an instance. There is a very good Matrix chat where you can get a lot of help too with set up, etc. There’s also a few communities for hosting lemmy, such as !lemmy_support@lemmy.ml

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    2 years ago

    More subscribers… check More comment… maybe check Quality content… nah

    I use RSS to get r/selfhosted post and I can guarantee that most posts are amateurs asking questions.

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    2 years ago

    I agree with all the comments so far but would like to add my own thoughts. Users are not important. Personally I moved to lemmy because the quality of discussion on reddit dropped so much.

    This has been my trajectory:

    • avid reddit user and content creator there (not sure if the right term) 2016 - 2018
    • lurker from 2018 to 2023
    • completely dropped reddit and moved to lemmy

    My hope is that we can have the same kind of content and discussion in pre 2020 reddit