• cynar@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    While there are a lot of parenting books, it’s only in the last few years that it has been properly studied, scientifically. My generation of parents is one of the first to be able to truly make use of the advancements.

    Basically, it wasn’t that handbooks didn’t exist (when the episode was made), but that they contradicted each other.

  • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    no amount of books prepare you to be a good parent.

    the only thing that has helped me are three rules

    1. be calm
    2. be understanding
    3. lead by example

    it also helps to be firm. when you said no, it means no. no amount of begging or bargaining will change that. and when a punishment is given, it’s seen through to the end.

  • FuglyDuck@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I wonder what percentage of the books have absolutely bonkers advice. I know Dobson contributed a few.

  • scarabic@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Point is taken but especially as they grow, challenges become more unique to their personality. Every baby shits and feeds much the same way. How do you instill good values and habits in a 10 year old? Depends a lot on the 10 year old.