• taiyang@lemmy.world
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      4 months ago

      You and me both; the advice that worked ok for me is a pillow between the legs and proper placement under the head that keeps everything level.

      They also suggested we get the softer mattresses, since we want a little extra dip for the shoulders and hips. That advice is a mixed bag, though, as I still get shoulder pain. Might be the cheap foam, though.

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        I got very lucky and found the perfect mattress for this, it has a softer exterior layer (about 5-6cm of cheapo smartphoam) and something tougher at its core, perfect balance between smushy enough to accommodate an elbow, firm enough to keep things tidy. No-name mattress from an Ikea knock-off, it was a steal.

        Struggling with pillows, though… Still haven’t managed to find something which works for me… Plenty of blankets to wrangle with my legs, so there’s that, at least.

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      4 months ago

      Same, if I lay straight on my back for just a minute my bladder will start to nag me to go to toilet and it doesn’t matter that I’ve just peed a couple of times in the last half an hour…

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        4 months ago

        Every single time, yes! Every single damned time when I lay on my back, I have to get up and pee within 5 minutes tops… No small bladder, no UT issues, nothin’…

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            4 months ago

            Hmm, I wonder if it has something to do with muscle tension, maybe?:-? Your mentioning of relaxation clicked, maybe when we lay on our backs, our bladders/various sphincters relax and release?:-?

            I, for one, can say for certain I am tensed up for pretty much the duration of my episodes of consciousness…

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              4 months ago

              Hm yes, I’m a very anxious person myself so that makes sense.

              My theory for why I have to pee so often (not only lying down) is also that it was a strategy for me to cope with a very controlling household growing up where my needs were frequently dismissed or ignored.

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                Oh, that makes a lotta sense! Sorry to hear about your familial context, though:(

                Had a rough upbringing as well, anxiety and I are old friends by this point, but I developed the opposite - I pushed toward resilience, toward holding it in for as long as possible, precisely because I understood I couldn’t count on anyone around me.

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    4 months ago

    I like to cross my arms across my chest, as well. If it’s good enough for vampires and pharaohs, it’s good enough for me. I have scared the shit out of several roommates, though…i

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    4 months ago

    How can people sleep on their back without suffocating when they wake up ?

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    Yes, but you sleep best in a confortable and not forced position. Back/neck pain is the result of an forced position which not change in the hours of sleep. There isn’t any pain when you are confortable in a not too old and good mattress

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    4 months ago

    This is too hot. Pillow too hot and now you have three pillows and two of them are under the covers.

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    My favorite part of these comments are the number of people coming to the realization they may have sleep apnea, lol