• Shelbyeileen@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    My neighbor HATES me because I’ve been converting my backyard into clover. We have fireflies, Butterflies, bees, bunnies, all sorts of wildlife. It smells beautiful, but we are an oasis amongst upper-middle class lawn zombies… Mowing, edging, pesticide spraying, weed killing zombies.

    Meanwhile, I have milkweed, clover, chive, snapdragons, black eyed susans, grapes, raspberries, lilac, echinacea, chamomile, lavender, hydrangea, coreopsis, and salvia. I welcome wasps that eat pests, I buy bags of ladybugs, I compost… I’m really trying. It’s only 1/4 an acre, but I’m trying.

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      7 months ago

      Please keep doing it. As a poor landless peasant I celebrate your attempt to preserve some of nature. You’re buying time, which is vitally important

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      7 months ago

      I dislike the mowing robots because they seem to encourage the Flatt grass only gardens and I hate them.

      You can still have flowers around them yes, but the grass is mostly a plant and insect desert.

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      7 months ago

      I love this and I’m working towards a no lawn/native plants setup as well. I hope your neighbour’s hate fuels you. Keep at it!

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    7 months ago

    Mine too! My lawn is slowly turning into a sea of clover, I throw wild flower seeds all over the place, and get to see all kinds of cool bugs! Hopefully they enjoy my 8 acres of natural habitat.

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    7 months ago

    Man im working so hard to be that yard, but its not as easy as just stop mowing!

    Always on the lookout for invasives, poison ivy, tree sapplings (my yard isnt big enough to support any more trees without threatening the house), and other undesirables.

    Then theres also the english ivy encroaching from the corner that I’ve pretty much given up on :/

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      7 months ago

      It’s great that you’re helping your native plants stand against the invasives, they’re like the schoolyard bullies of the backyard.

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      7 months ago

      English ivy is a tough one, but at least getting the vertical growth is a fairly easy to manage. the vertical growth is also more problematic because it is a requirement for producing berries and killing trees

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      7 months ago

      It’s great that you’re helping your native plants stand against the invasives, they’re like the schoolyard bullies of the backyard.

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    7 months ago

    Alright I’m going to need all of your suggestions as this is the project I’m working on right now.

    A bought a small townhouse in Ontario 7 months ago and I have a tiny yard.

    The yard had mostly grass, but had a little bit of moss, crab grass, and clover. There is a small garden, and many dirt patches in the yard.

    I have spread clover seed in the yard, especially in the dirt patches.

    Then I weeded the garden area, removed about half the rocks but left some in the garden, I have my mother coming over next month to help me pick local garden flowers, and I had to pull a tiny tree out because it was planted right beside the foundation of the building and would eventually cause damage.

    What else should be added to the lawn? Should I be pulling out the crabgrass? What wildflowers are native to Ontario?

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      Visit some Garden Centres near you- often they’ll have seed mixes of local perennial flowers available for purchase, you just need to spread the seeds in the spring or autumn.

      Also, “weeds” aren’t always weeds, they’re just plants that some people decided get in the way of monocultures. If it’s flowering, it’s feeding insects, so leave it be.

      The fireflies are awesome in my area this summer and my humble yard is part of that. It’s honestly so satisfying watching plants come back year after year, bigger and bigger

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      I’d check for native species of clover, which is invasive in most of Canada.

  • LallyLuckFarm@beehaw.org
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    7 months ago

    Friendly reminder that lightning bugs need tall grasses present in addition to wildflowers and leaf litter. You can also improve their survival rates by removing artificial lighting or even just setting any safety lighting (like motion activated lamps) to their shortest “on” duration. Another obvious step is to avoid pesticides.

    https://www.fws.gov/story/save-fireflies

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    Lightning bugs never existed where I live 😞 I didn’t realize they were real until my mid teens even

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    7 months ago

    Oh Lemmy, I saw all the lightning bugs in the trees last night, blinking fast as hell because of the high temperature, and I thought of you!

    I was just discussing my raggedy-ass yard and it’s contribution to the local fauna.

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    I believe like two people in this thread lol.

    Just not maintaining your shit isn’t some praiseworthy, heroic effort to benefit the community. Letting your once normal lawn grow out of control is not rewilding anymore than throwing your food scraps out the window is composting.

    Sure, vast expanses of perfectly manicured fescue are not helping fireflies or other bug species, but let’s be real, knee high thistles, dandelions, and crabgrass is not providing a profound service either.

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      Sure, maybe. But my yard has frogs and fireflies in it and my neighbors’ don’t. That seems pretty empirical to me.

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      …knee high thistles…

      That all you got? Mine literally block the sun.

      I’ve got Palm Warblers and Goldfinches up in that shit, and the flowers are absolutely covered in bees right now.

      Also my yard sparkles at night. I’ll probably take the thistle down when it looks like its going to seed, since it’s not native, but while it’s providing useful habitat and not spreading, I’m going to let it be.