I was wondering how the pre-reddit lemmy members feel about the influx of ex-reddit. Have things got worst or better? Is there any lemmy etiquette that we are missing?

  • monobot@lemmy.ml
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    3 years ago

    I, personally, would prefer slower linear and more organic growth. I want people to be here because the want to come, not because they want to run away from somewhere else.

    But I do acknowledge that there was not much discussion going on and was not enough content for my procrastinating habits, nor I could keep myself informed in current events.

    Thou I have had lemmy.ml account for three years now I never heard of beehaw before this reddit wave started, so that might be on me.

    While I am positive overall, I do not like that some bad habits from reddit are resurfacing here, mostly not being able to have different opinion without someone insulting you.

    I hope there will be enough instances where discussion and difference in opinion will be nurtured and welcome.

    • mourkeer@lemmy.world
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      3 years ago

      I have a pet peeve around people saying “this.” When they agree with someone. Idk why… I was hoping I wouldn’t see that here but unfortunately it’s cropping up.

      My concern is that and a bunch of other reddit-isms flood the site. I don’t mind redditors coming here but I hope the site can still have its own identity.

      There are a few others:

      • “at least the <inanimate object> is ok” on videos where someone gets hurt
      • “no shoes therefore dead”
      • “some ninja is cutting onions”
      • “sir this is a Wendy’s”
      • Etc.

      I mean this reddit post complaining about annoying phrases came out 9 years ago. 9 YEARS. And since then I continue to see so many of those and others.

      https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1i5cd2/_/

      I don’t want to gatekeep either. But certain phrases repeated over and over is just so irritating.

    • MHcharLEE@lemmy.world
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      3 years ago

      While I am positive overall, I do not like that some bad habits from reddit are resurfacing here, mostly not being able to have different opinion without someone insulting you.

      This is humans were talking about. Humans on the internet. This is inevitable and I wouldn’t specifically attribute this to former reddit users. You have this on Twitter, you have this on Instagram. The “my opinion is the only correct opinion” sentiment is prevalent everywhere today. Sadly.

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        3 years ago

        Also: this is community-specific.

        Many subreddits were fantastic about not tolerating insults or disrespect.

        I expect the same here - some Fediverse communities will be a free-for-all with insults, some will be a welcoming place for people to disagree without getting insulted.

        It’s not anyone’s goal to impose one set of rules of decorum for the entire Fediverse.

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      3 years ago

      I did run away from Reddit but I also want to be here because I have been a firm believer in the Fediverse. It is bringing net neutrality back. I’m here to stay!

    • Phil@lemmy.worldOP
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      3 years ago

      I guess that is well worth keeping in mind , coming from the cesspool that is reddit everything seems so polite here by comparison.