we’re so back. anyways as you can tell by the other pinned post, we’ve been a little busy with a lot of stuff on the backend and that’s probably going to continue into the foreseeable future
Lol, can I answer this even though I don’t have a Beehaw account anymore?
It’s ok. But it’s been hot weather, like summer. I want winter and the cold to come already. I have gotten started with a programming course in C#, some tasks are difficult but it’s fun problem-solving. School is ok, my classmates are nice but unfortunately I don’t seem to have much in common with most/any of them.
All in all, things are going alright. I remade all of my Spotify playlists which has been therapeutic. Now I’m just chilling, school is draining sometimes. But life is ok. 👍
If you have any c# questions shoot them my way
I will! Thank you for offering your help. (:
Had an exposition over the weekend and it was amazing to see all the different perspectives, and made new contacts. I’m currently secretly living in my atelier so I really need contacts to find a better living situation, so that was a relief. Also my aunt and uncle were there and they were the last people I hadn’t come out to yet, because I love them but they can be very conservative at times. But well, it was kinda hard to hide considering that my new name was written on the flyers and that I was wearing my makeup. I can’t express how happy and relieved I am that they are completely supportive!
That’s great news! Sometimes I think things are better without a ‘conversation’ if you know what I mean. They can see you’re happy as you are and you don’t necessarily have to put pressure on yourself to explain anything.
Ya it was like that. I really hate it when people start asking about genitalia.
In this case it was more emotionally validating from their side, and we agreed we can talk more about it in detail another time because it doesn’t matter so much.
What’s funny is that I prepared really a lot to talk with them, an prepared materials and stuff. But then it went like this.
Happy birthday to me.
Stuck in meetings all week. Caffeine will be critically important.
Also, Zombies, Run, a magnificent app, has stopped working for most android phones, and it’s a major bummer
I got a new job! finally out after 9 years at a call center. Things are heading in a positive direction. I hope everyone has a great week :)
Hey that’s awesome! Sounds like you’re off to a fresh start.
Congratulations!
Hope it’s a start of more good things to come.Congratulations!
Yesterday was my birthday!
It was a nice and easy going day spend with my family. Topped it off with going out for a nice dinner.
I enjoyed it, nothing fancy but just the way I like it :)Happy late birthday! :D
Thank you! :)
Honestly, pretty miserable. A “promotion” ended up docking my partner’s pay (the difference in what they were making got rolled into benefits) and now we went from being totally fine to things being tremendously tight basically overnight. It’s been hard finding work on my end and I’m just incredibly stressed. I’ll be alright though, I hope.
Going good! Got a few new games, been feeling a bit blah but am getting over that gradually. Been cutting my social media usage a bit, I deleted my microblogging fediverse account and pretty much just have Lemmy now which still eats up a lot of my time but still a huge improvement since I’m not spending nearly as much time online anymore as I was, it was getting to be a bit too much.
Edit: Also just today, I decided to drop my Japanese studying that I’ve been doing for a few years and fully focus on Castilian Spanish that I’ve been learning on the side instead. Japanese was getting to be way too much of a workload and timesink for me. Hoping this helps get rid of some stress.
Hey Nia what games did you get
I got No Man’s Sky (for some reason seeing Starfield stuff made me want to play that again, haven’t played it since launch on console) and Monster Hunter World again, really just old games I used to have on console and have been really tempted to play again since I found them on good sales
Oh ya it has its charm. It’s definitely unique.
And mhw, is that where you smack those large animals?
Yep! I played it years ago but it’s been on my mind for some reason, tempted me enough to pick it up again
New depressive episode after being almost functioning 👍
Don’t forget about your daily stupid mental health walk.
And have other people potentially see my physical form? No thank you 😤
(U right tho i really should get out of my smelly cave 🫠)
Do you mean that you’re obese? I’ve actually met someone today that I really like who is obese, and I’ve had a ONS with someone who was obese. Don’t sell yourself short!
Doesnt change the fact that im still really fucking ugly but thank u kind stranger 🥰
You know a lot of guys feel insecure about balding but I’ve always liked it. Same with gray hair. I also have a friend who is into people who are very skinny or are missing limbs. Weird I know but I am just saying you never know what other people look for. And at the end of the day its not your looks people fall for.
And I am not even talking about friendship here, which is arguably better for many people, or simply strangers.
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You know this might sound made up but I’ve never met a confident woman except for that woman from the ONS. That’s what I fell for. She had been bullied so badly, at some point she just decided to start validating herself. It’s so rare.
And how is any of this related to friendship? Those are arguably better any way.
I’m stealing “daily stupid mental health walk” because that’s fantastic.
Love it, ha ha!
My relationships are really struggling. I’ve been focusing my time on installing and configuring Arch Linux on my desktop to take my mind off of it all.
Flying out to visit my parents and brother this evening, so that’s pretty good.
What’s not very good is that my Mom got caught COVID for the first time last week. Then my brother says that he’s tested positive, though he’s not feeling anything. So yeah, I’m flying into the hot zone apparently. And as far as I know, I’ve never gotten COVID. That new booster that just got approved by the FDA can’t come soon enough.
Either way, it’ll be good to have the whole family together for about a week.
Hope everyone gets better soon. Had Covid twice and the sore throat is the worst, feels like you’ve swallowed glass.
in a tragic moment one of my friends has inexplicably nuked all of their contacts with my friend group for the 3rd time in a year and a half so lol, guess i’m just not gonna talk to that person again since i do not have the patience to try and sort their shit out again
What do You think 🤔 happened to them?
As someone who does this often, or rather did as I don’t reappear anymore, was always shocked when everyone just rolled with it when I popped back up.
But, never had shit to be sorted.
Sorry about your friend. Here
Mixed bag so far. It’s been hot over here and I’ve barely slept so feel like hell. Auditioned for a new choir this evening and got in which was nice, it’s a great choir but just annoying that it’s the opposite side of the city.
Seriously considering getting an ebike now that they’ve ended one of the escooter trials here. Hard to know where to start though, not had a bike since I was a teenager.
I got up too early 💤
Pretty fine. Finally beat BG3. Already planning my next run. ;)
